Based on the popular blog ‘Stuff White People Like‘, Paris wine guide Olivier Magny takes you through Parisian quicks and tics – an absolute must read for anyone trying to understand what makes Parisians Parisians.
http://www.o-chateau.com/blog/
The Paris Blog
The Paris blog aggregates several blogs written by expats in Paris. It’s always on top of what’s going on in Paris.
Gridskipper Paris
If you’re looking for ideas of where to go this weekend, you’ll be spoilt for choice going through Gridskipper’s Paris archives.
http://gridskipper.com/tag/paris
I V Y Paris News
Artist’s group I V Y paris keeps you up to date on the Paris cultural scene. Keep an eye out for their monthly events!
Swagger Paris
When you get to Paris, you’ll probably want to go through your wardrobe. Chic, cool, bobo, or absolutely ridiculous, you’ll find inspiration to find your own Parisian look.
In French, the informal is represented by ‘tu’ and the formal and plural by ‘vous’. However, it is difficult to know when to use which one.
The general rule is that you use ‘tu’ with those you know well, and ‘vous’ with those you don’t. However, the rules aren’t always clear cut. There are some people, particularly amongst younger people, who switch to ‘tu’ at the first possible opportunity, oftentimes without ever passing through ‘vous’. This is particularly the case if you have friends in common.
‘Vous’ is used for people that you don’t know well, or you know only in a professional setting. If you walk into a café to have a coffee, you use ‘vous’ when you order. If you talk to a director or associate of a company, you will almost always use ‘vous’.
Even this isn’t clear cut though. In my company, pretty much everyone uses ‘tu’. Our company is made up of young people (the average age is around 30) and the founders made a point of it being a comfortable place to work. When I first started, I consistently used ‘vous’, but was quickly told ‘Non, on tutoie ici‘. You have to go with the flow.
If you’re unsure which pronoun to use with someone, start with ‘vous’. If the other person starts to use ‘tu’, you can assume you can follow. If you try to use ‘tu’ before the other person, you can end up looking like an over-eager puppy!
You love food. A lot.
France has a very rich culinary tradition – and no it’s not just fancy creations served in small portions on large plates. French food can be very rich, served in very large portions, and over several courses. There’s a reason the French spend longer on meals than anywhere else in Europe.
French cuisine can also vary by region, and even by town. It’s not uncommon for French students to take time to learn what the local specialty in towns throughout the country. In Paris you can find pretty much any type of cuisine you want, but in other areas you may want to look into what type of food the locals eat.
You love wine.
The French love their wines. It seems as if every town has a chateau that produces a local vintage. Wine is cheaper in France than it is in many other countries, and can often be even cheaper than beer.
If you’re stuck on your local wine, however, you’ll be hard pressed to find it: French stores are brimming with French wines, but the market for foreign varieties is smaller and less developed, although it is beginning to grow.
You like people.
The French are a social lot, and social interactions are coded a bit differently than in English speaking countries (at least differently than I was used to). The French love to invite people to their homes, and in return they fully expect to be invited to yours. Getting together at the local bar isn’t done to the extent that it is in England, for example.
French young people are particularly fond of the “apéro” or apéritif, a small get together to have a drink or two before dinner. It is not unusual for the apéro to cover dinner as well. When you’re invited to an apéro, you should always ask what you should bring. You may be asked just to bring something to drink, or you may also be asked to bring something to eat. If so, assume you’ll be staying for dinner and bring something filling.
You like a social safety net – and you’re willing to fight for it.
France is also world renowned for looking after its citizens (albeit in a distant and cold way). Unemployment insurance generally covers 60% of your former income for up to two years time.
However, getting a job in France can be difficult. Unemployment is high, particularly amongst foreigners. Also, French employers love degrees and qualifications, and these are generally expected to be in the same field that you want to work in.
You love the language, and you’re willing to make an effort
The French love their language, and will expect you to make an effort to speak it. It’s part of the immigration requirements to renew your carte de séjour, but it’s also common sense.
Also, no matter how well you think you speak the language, the French will correct you. Don’t take it the wrong way, it’s part of French schooling. They spend oodles of time learning grammar and vocabulary and spelling, and it just becomes natural for them to correct others’ faults.
These are just a few of the reasons you may like France enough to want to make it your home. What about you? Why did you come to France, or why are you considering it? Share it with us in the comments!